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April 18, 1998
15 years ago
today my life changed. 15 years ago I made a promise, a promise to live.
For those of
you who don’t know – I was in a house fire on UTC Campus at the Sigma Chi
Fraternity House in Chattanooga, TN. I escaped the fire by jumping out of the top floor only to
land on a sidewalk. I broke my back, both feet and burnt over half my body 3rd
degree. They said I would never walk again; I had 4 surgeries the first few
days – skin graphs that now cover both of my arms and my entire back. Rods were
put in my back that later would be covered in staff infection and be removed.
Left foot – clean ankle break, right foot crushed and basically wired back
together on the inside. I don’t sweat, I can’t cool myself off, I can’t be in
the sun, I can’t push myself physically, my foot sometimes just likes to “go
out” on me, I wake up with an aching back everyday, I have gained a lot of
weight due to not being as active, I have lost a lot of my self esteem, I look
in the mirror and see scars from head to toe, and I always wondered why it
happened to me?
But you know…I
am ALIVE to write this today. I lived, I fought, I stayed strong and pulled
through. I walked again. . I kept my good attitude “most” of the 3 months I
lived in the hospital with my mom. I left the hospital in crutches even though
they told me I would be in a walker. I was and am completely supported by the
BEST friends and family a girl could ask for. The most genuine man I know loves
me unconditionally and I am fortunate to have been married to him 12 years this
July. I have four fur children that bring smiles to my face on a daily basis. We
are on an incredible journey to bring our daughter home. I have a business that
continues to make my heart happy. I live in a beautiful city surrounded by friends and
family.
I wake up
thankful everyday that I was given another chance to live. God saved me that
day for a reason and I plan to spend my entire LONG life discovering why.
To all the
people in my life that day and the 15 years to follow – thank you. I couldn’t
have done this without you. All of you are part of my journey. I love each of
you and thank God for the difference you have made in my life.
I leave you
with this….remember to tell the people you love you LOVE them! We are reminded
EVERY DAY that this could be our last day on earth. Thank God you woke up
today. Thank God you were given another day to live. Enjoy it. Make the best of
it. Don’t dwell on the bad stuff – there is ALWAYS good! Thank God for your
blessings every night. Make a promise to live. I have kept my promise and will
keep living my life one day at a time!
With my love
and appreciation,
Tobi
